Cause and Effect

            Fast Food, the Fast Choice!

Nowadays fast food is very popular in our life. It is easy to find burger, instant noodle, instant fried rice or french fries everywhere, not only in a restaurant. Everyone can consume with many choices. It is a fast choice to make our weight is over, but it is not good choice to eat them as daily foods. It is malnutrition food or we can say junk food. It is only consist of saturated fat and salt that results your weight is over. Obesity may be caused by eating them, because it contains of addictive called Monosodium Glutamate (MSG). It causes our endocrine hormone system is unbalance. Moreover, some unhealthy food like that is packaged of bhispenol that is very dangerous because of its function is for disturbing hormone system.

Sources :             bahaya-junk-food.html

                        sejuta-bahaya-di-balik-lezatnya-junk-food.htm 

Bismillah........... Sedikit Uraian tentang 'love' dan 'broken heart' :)

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Seseorang yang sedang jatuh cinta, akan mengatakan cinta itu indah. Bagaikan salju yang turun dalam panasnya sinar matahari. Menemani tidur yang panjang hingga menembus bayang - bayang mimpi indah. Datang dalam sepi dan bercanda dalam keramaian. Menghapus airmata menjadi senyuman dan memgabadikan senyuman dalam balutan kebahagiaan.

Tak beda, seorang yang patah hati akan mengatakan cinta itu indah, tapi dengan dengan emoticon :(. “Nyesek banget….!” Cinta itu bagaikan petir yang menggelegar di siang hari. Layaknya badai yang mengiringi hujan deras pada malam hari dan laksana bulan yang tertutup awan kelabu.

Nb:Untuk yang patah hati, tak perlu merasa - rasa apakah yang dirasakan sama dengan apa yang terurai di atas.

Sebagaimana cinta, kecewa ataupun patah hati adalah hal yang wajar dialami setiap manusia. Sebenarnya patah hati bisa dicegah sedini mungkin (;)) dengan cara :

1.     Mencintai karena Allah SWT

2.     Mencintai sewajarnya

3.     Mencintai dengan hati (bukan nafsu)

4.     Mencintai tanpa rasa takut untuk kehilangan

5.     Cari sendiri dalam hati kecilmu!

Lima langkah yang tak berbelit - belit agar tidak kecewa saat mencintai seseorang. Penjelasan singkat ..................................

Pertama, mencintai karena Allah, ‘pure’.Tak berarti, pa dan pi yang berdua - duaan dalam tempat yang ramai atau sepi, lalu mengungkapkan cinta dan mengatakan, “ aku mencintaimu karena Allah” padahal hubungan mereka belum halal. Setiap saat saling mengingatkan untuk kebaikan, tapi ……………………. mereka berdua saling bersama disetiap kesempatan, sekali lagi padahal belum halal! Ingat, setan itu pinter dan tak pernah kehilangan akal untuk menelusup di hati para manusia - manusia imut yang hatinya sedang berbunga - bunga.

Sesungguhnya orang-orang yang saling mencintai, kamar-kamarnya di surga nanti terlihat seperti bintang yang muncul dari timur atau bintang barat yang berpijar. Lalu ada yang bertanya, “siapa mereka itu?, “mereka itu adalah orang-orang yang mencintai karena Allah ‘Azzawajalla. (HR. Ahmad)

http://shahibulquraa.wordpress.com/2010/07/02/hadist-hadist-cinta/

Kedua, mencintai sewajarnya. Kenapa? Ya karena kalau mencintainya luar biasa, kalau patah pasti rasa sakitnya juga luar biasa. Setau saya, di fakultas kedokteran belum ada jurusan kedokteran cinta, so kalau hatinya patah kronis takutnya nggak bisa disambung ( ;) Peace….).
Rosullah Saw, bersabda, Cintailah kekasihmu sewajarnya saja karena bias saja suatu saat nati ia akan menjadi orang yang kamu benci. Bencilah sewajarnya karena bias saja suatu saat nanti ia akan menjadi kekasihmu. (HR. Al-Tirmidzi).

http://shahibulquraa.wordpress.com/2010/07/02/hadist-hadist-cinta/

Sudah jelas kan. Cintailah sewajarnya karena bisa saja suatu saat nanti orang yang kita cintai bisa jadi orang yang kita benci. Tak perlu sampai mengatakan, “ aku bisa gila tanpamu (lah), aku bisa mati tanpamu (lah), aku lemah tak bisa, tak mampu, tak hidup, tak nafas atau tak lain - lainnya.

Ketiga, cintailah dengan hati. Jika benar - benar mencintai seseorang, maka kamu pasti akan menjaga dia dengan baik - baik, menjaga kesuciannya, menjaga hatinya, menjaga keutuhan imannya dan menjaga kebahagiaan yang ada padanya. Pisahkan ‘hati’ dengan ‘nafsu’.  Cinta tak harus sering bertemu, berdua - duaan, saling memandang, saling menyentuh, saling a, saling b, c dan sampai z. Sekali lagi, syetan dimana - mana dan sangat senang melihat dua insan yang bukan mahram berdua - duaan.

Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam, bersabda :

لاَ يَخْلُوَنَّ رَجُلٌ بِامْرَأَةٍ إِلاَّ كَانَ ثَالِثُهُمَا الشَّيْطَانُ.

“Tidaklah seorang laki-laki berkhalwat dengan wanita, kecuali pihak ketiganya adalah syetan.”( Hadits riwayat At-Turmudzi, 3/474; lihat Misykatul Mashabih, 3188).

http://ilmuislam2011.wordpress.com/2011/08/20/18-khalwat-berduaan-dengan-wanita-yang-bukan-mahram/

Keempat, mencintai tanpa rasa takut untuk kehilangan. Ingatlah bahwa kamu mencintainya karena Allah, jadi apapun yang akan terjadi nanti akan kau pasrahkan pada Allah,. Jika dia mencintaimu, Alhamdulillah, jika tidak yaa Alhamdulillah juga, berarti Allah akan memberikan yang lebih baik juga untukmu dan untuknya.

Kelima, cari sendiri ya dalam hati kecilmu :)

Intinya, laa tahzan kalau patah hati. Tak perlu sibuk mencari lagi (pacar), tapi kembalilah pada fitrah cinta yang sesungguhnya (hakiki) untuk Allah. Nah, kalau bagi yang memendam cinta lalu tiba - tiba dia sudah pakai cincin di jari manisnya, tetep “jangan bersedih” juga:). Allah jauh lebih tau yang terbaik untukmu. Sertakan Allah dalam setiap memilih keputusan, termasuk dalam hal cinta (yang halal).

Semangat memperbaiki diri dan menggali potensi diri. Belajar, mencari ilmu yang banyak dan bermanfaat. Simpanlah cinta terindah yang sebenar - benarnya cinta layaknya mutiara.

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The Palace of Berry

There was a beautiful pigeon, named Ozilie, who lived in the peace jungle, called Jevenille jungle. Ozilie lived with her parents.

One night, Ozilie wanted blackberries. She flew from one tree to another tree and landed into the ground then flew again. She flew around the Jevenille but no result. She felt tired, her left wing became weak. “What happened with my wings?” she cried. Inhabitants of Juvenille had slept, so no one knew her. She just waited for impossible helped. She sat and took a rest at a big tree.

The next morning, she found her left wing was bandaged and her body was covered with smooth fur.     She made her wing free by her beak. “Was it a letter?” she surprised when found hand writing behind the bandage.

 

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Beauty, last night I found your body was very tired. Your left wing was not same with your right wing, it looked too weak. So, I begged my youngest sister to give olive oil over your body and accompany you over the night. My blanket made you warm over night, right?

You are the most beautiful girl that I have met in this world. Hopefully, onetime I will see you again.
RegardPrinc. LIONELE

She was very glad with the letter. She went home with the most beautiful smile. “lalalala….lalalala…” she sang. Her father had already in front of the door. “Where were you?” he asked.  Ozilie answered his questions very clear, so her father was not angry. In the bedroom, she still kept smiling. She thought to go to that tree every night. She shared about the letter to her mother. “Prince Lionele? He is the prince of owl. Honey, please… kept your heart, it was just a letter,” she worried. Her mother was very anxious. She was afraid that her daughter felt in love the prince too fast. “It would be never ever happened!” said her father.

Ozilie did not care with their notice. Every night, she went to the big tree and every morning she got a love letter from Prince Lionele. She was really felt in love with him. The tenth letter was written that he wanted Ozilie became his princess. That letter made her parents did not know what would be they did.  They wanted her daughter happy but in the deep heart, they did not permit. “Honey, you were pigeon and he was the owl, you could not be with him!” said her mother in heart.  

In the twentieth night, she wanted to meet him in his kingdom. The moon was in the up of head. She made sure herself to fly to the up of the big tree. She saw the big kingdom there. The door was decorated with berry trees and there was corn garden. “Waw!” she yelled. The kingdom was very noisy. Someone asked “Hey, what are you doing here?” She ran quickly.

“Don’t be afraid,” he said calmly. She asked his named, and he answered, “I am Prince Lionele.” His smile made Ozilie’s heart was blooming. “Are you serious?” she asked. “Yes!” She looked him from bottom to the top. “You are very handsome,” she whispered. “Don’t be a liar no one says that our species are handsome.” He told about the owl kingdom that isolated them selves. They always became actors of mockery. They did activities in the night and slept in the day to keep them from the world outside.

Actually, he was shy because Ozilie has come to him early. He talked about his heart to her. “Do you like berry?” he asked. “Yes, I love berry. Why?” she answered. “If you want, I will build you a berry house, with various berries there. Do you want it?” Ozilie was very happy after hearing his statement. “Yes, I want it.” “But………” he stopped for a moment. “But…What?” He leaved her and took something. “Are you doubt with me?” she asked. “But you must be my princess …. Will you marry me?” he opened the box that he held. It was a beautiful silver crown. She was speechless. “Come back to your home and I will come!” they were smile very glad.

Ozilie was sure with her heart. The Prince said that in the next night he would come to her house. Really, they came with the king and the queen. They decided the dates of the wedding party. When the neighborhood heard that news they mocked them. Her parents decided to carry out the wedding in the jungle, without their family from their species.

The precious moment was in front of eyes. The bride wore the beautiful silver gown. More than beautiful, it also shined in the dark of night. The bridegroom wore the prince costume. They were very glad. After the party end, Princess Ozilie and Prince Lionelle decided to fly together around the jungle. Their parents announced that it was very danger because the moon was not in the top of head. It meant that the time was near to the morning and the prince would be blind. “I will hold my love,” said the princess softly.  

They started to fly from the jungle and they said good bye with the most beautiful smile. They danced in the sky then sat in the branch. They flew again and moved from one tree to another. They celebrated and declared their love to the world.

“Are you happy?” asked the Prince. “Very happy,” she held his right wing. They made romantic moment. The prince heard hidden sound from a tree in front of him. “Dangerous,” he said. “What do you mean?” she answered. “No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” he heard sound of wind solder. He flew in front of her, but she pushed his body to left. He bumped into the body of tree. “Honey …. Honey…” he called his wife. She felt in the ground weakly. He believed that she would be safe. He carried her to the hospital of the kingdom. One….. Two ….. Three …… Four hours. She did not take a breath. She whispered him, “Remember… My endless love… Please, take care of my parents well because they are more precious than me. I am sorry, did not give you something. I love you. I love you very much.” She closed her eyes.

The prince was very sad. He did not have spirit to live but live must go on. They promised to give berry house for her. Eventually, he built a berry house, called The Palace of Berry. That place was for her last rest. He decorated it with various berry. He also made the love letters from him which became an album that placed there. Near there, he built a big house to her parents. He kept the last message from his wife very well.

                                                           

Ceneh (Cerita Aneh)

13^th June

            “ Happy birthday to you…….. Happy birthday to you ……… Happy birthday, happy birthday, happy birthday to you …….. Yeeeeeeee ……. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!”, begitulah riuh suasana rumah Modi malam ini. Sekitar satu RT orang datang dan membawa kue ulang tahun. Perasaan Modi tak karuan, bahagia, senang, sumpek dan pusing berkecamuk menjadi satu. Di ulangtahunnya yang ke - 17 ini, dia dikagetkan lagi oleh massa yang membawa surprise. Hati kecilnya memang sangat bahagia, namun setelah melihat tepung dan pecahan telur berserakan, mud bahagianya enyah seketika. Senyumannya tidak asyik dilihat, dengan muka setengah masam. Bibirnya tersenyum tapi matanya melotot. Dua jam yang ia lalui bersama kerumunan massa akhirnya berakhir. Tepat pukul tiga dini hari, massa berhasil dibubarkan dengan dalih tidak enak dengan tetangga.

            “ Ya Allah” rintihya dengan wajah memelas.

            “ Sabar ya den ,”seseorang berkaos putih mengagetkannya.

            “ Mamang mau ngapain?”

            “ Mau bersih - bersih den”.

            “ Tidak usah! Tidur saja lagi! Saya kan sudah pesen, kalau ada massa yang datang tengah malem nggak usah dibukain pintu!” jelasnya kesal.

            “ Walah terimakasih den.. Mamang juga masih ngantuk…”, ungkapnya datar sambil berjalan menjauhi Modi.

            “ Mau kemana?”

            “ Nglanjutin mimpi sama mbak Anggun den”.

            “ Heh apa maksudmu? Kamu suka ngayalin dan ngimpiin mama?”

            “ Aden ini……Bukan bu Anggun mamanya den Modi, tapi Anggun Case Sasmi” jawabnya sambil senyam - senyum.

            “ Emang iya Anggun namanya Anggun Case Sasmi?”, tanya Modi kepo.

            “ Yaiya donk den, aden tau nggak Case itu artinya apa?”

            “ Apa??”, kepo anak 17-an mulai membara.

            “ Caerul Sesa den……”.

            “ Siapa tu? Nama bapaknya Anggun?”

            “ Makanya aden itu kalau manggil mang Cece’ jangan cuma mang meng mong saja, sekali - kali manggil nama dong. Caerul Sesa itu nama mamang” jawabnya menyakitkan.

            “ What? “ muka merah membara emoticon (>:0)

            “ #@%*!!!” mamang tertawa dan lari terbirit-birit

            Dengan sisa tenaganya Modi balik menuju kamar.

            “ Kriiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiing!” belum sempat merebahkan badan handphone sudah berbunyi.

            “ Modi sayaaaang !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” setengah mati dia mendengar suara itu.

            “ Iyaaaaaaaaa” firasat kurang baik.

            “ Selamat ulang tahun !!! Semoga ………. ………….. …………….. ……………….. “ BLA….. BLA ..Modi sudah hafal dengan embel - embel setelah itu.

            “ Makasih !” tuut … tuut … Kalau aku jadi cewek yang nelpon aku langsung datang ke rumah Modi dan bilang, “ kamu tega banget ciiih ………” atau sms “ kok kamu matiin gitu aja, kamu juhut hiks .. hiks “. Tapi beruntung si cewek yang nelpon Modi barusan nggak nglakuin itu.

            “ Maaf Ni L” ungkapnya sesak.

            Tak lama Modi memutuskan untuk menutup mata sejenak dan mengingat - ingat apa yang baru saja terjadi. Mungkinkah mimpi atau kenyataan. Dan pada akhirnya dia tersadar bahwa itu semua adalah …………….

            “ Nyata!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Aaa! Pax ,,, Pax   “ dia menampar ke kanan, kiri, kanan, kiri pipi cimolnya untuk memastikan bahwa ini adalah nyata.

            “ Mang .. Mang ..” Modi mengetuk pintu kamar mang Cece’.

            “ Ya den?” jawabnya sambil mengusap sesuatu disekitar mulutnya.

            “ Ini tanggal berapa?”

            “ 13 Juni den …”

            Muka Modi mulai senyum, senyum, senyum … memerah.. membiru…. dan…, “ Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”

            “ Alhamdulillah den, masih bisa ulang tahun” sambung mang Cece’ senyamsenyum           “ Iya mang Makasih!!!!!!!!” Modi kembali berteriak sekerasnya.

13^th June is paranoid day, why?Coz hari itu adalah ulang tahunnya, dimana pasti akan ada banyak orang yang datang meramaikan rumahnya dengan tepung, telur, air, kopi, dan masih banyak lagi. Tercatat setiap sebelum tanggal 13 Juni, kedua orang tuanya sudah membelikan lima kaleng cat untuk mengecat kembali tembok rumahnya yang pasti akan berubah warna. Itulah kenikmatan punya banyak teman yang care. Walaupun menjengkelkan, tapi itulah bentuk care dari teman - temannya. Karena saking pengertiannya, orang tua Miko hanya mengucapkan “ naaak …. sabar ya sayang.. tetap panjang umur yaa” di tanggal 13 Juni. Eh ada yang ketinggalan, di tanggal itu juga teman kecilnya yang diketahui bernama Juni yang lahirnya sama persis dia, tak pernah ketinggalan buat ngucapin ke Modi dengan ending “ kita ini apa sudah terlahir jodoh ya Modi” semakin membuat hidup Modi di tanggal itu jauh lebih lengkap. Ooo iyaa .. Si Juni tadi juga update status yang syahdu mendayu - ndayu setiap miladnya “ Miko - Juni’s birthday .. God thank’s for 13^th  June.. J MiJun 4ever “. Sesuatu bukan???   :D